tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730765485000125960.post6242200190968386793..comments2020-04-23T07:55:41.445-07:00Comments on badshah.net Thoughts & Ramblings: All about loving the one you gotAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04756278809081188735noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730765485000125960.post-39959468563749257042012-06-20T05:38:28.885-07:002012-06-20T05:38:28.885-07:00Hmmmm interesting......you r absolutely right u sh...Hmmmm interesting......you r absolutely right u shouldnt be chasing love- exactly what i said in my comment. In my comment i was questioning whether u can fall in love after u have married when u were already in love with someone else before.So can u force love after marriage with ur wife.<br />One definition of love i found: the most spectacular,indescribable deep feeling for someone.<br />For me when ur in love u always want to be together and without them ur life is incomplete.This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions.Their needs come before ur own.<br />Its when they r the last thing you think about before you go to sleepand when they are the 1st thing you think of when u wake up...the feeling that warms urheart n leaves u overcome by a feeling of serenity, love is intense n passionate. etc etc etc<br />I can distinguish between lust n love, lust is wanting their body but love is wanting to be with their soul.<br /><br />Having said all this i absolutely agree with you u shouldnt marry for love because love can die n u can fall out of love. You should only love for the sake of Allah S.W.T.samdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09454044939876080722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730765485000125960.post-28666952584337149102012-06-19T21:13:59.922-07:002012-06-19T21:13:59.922-07:00Thanks for the comment Samdam, but why are you bus...Thanks for the comment Samdam, but why are you busy falling for anyone other then the one you got? What Imean is if I'm busy romancing / loving, giving my attentions to the one I'm with I. E my wife, i'll not have the time, and energy to chase another. <br /><br />But my post is my veiw on life. I'm into the whole, 'get married, then fall in love with them, then have children and if problems / disagreements occur, both sides try thier best to fix them' ethos. <br /><br />But who a person chooses to marry should be based heavily on a simaler life direction. Also ture love based on mutual respect, trust and support should not be confused with lust and infatuation. <br /><br />Just my thoughts & ramblings. Once again thanks for commenting, glad to know someone out there is reading the odd blog post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04756278809081188735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730765485000125960.post-83362344179016661732012-06-19T19:01:04.219-07:002012-06-19T19:01:04.219-07:00Should you really settle for second best? And lo...Should you really settle for second best? And love the one you got? Dnt chase love, have love find you, thats why its called 'falling in love' and you shouldnt force it. How can you love the one you got when uve already fallen for the one you love?samdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09454044939876080722noreply@blogger.com